Long distance relationships are the most challenging phase you’ll ever go through, from the emotional swings to the cravings for physical intimacy and to trust issues; but with the right mindset, strategies, and commitment, couples can navigate the distance and time difference, and even strengthen their bond.
In this article, we’ll explore some practical tips and ideas to help you keep the spark alive and your long distance relationships sailing.
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Communication is Key in long distance relationships
Effective communication is the foundation of any successful relationship, and even more so in a long distance relationship. When you’re not physically together, it can be easy to misinterpret each other’s words or tone, leading to misunderstandings and conflicts. To avoid this, make communication a priority. Communication might not be frequent due to Time differences and all other work factors but let it be effective.
- Schedule regular video calls:
Set a specific time and day to catch up with each other, and stick to it. This means that one of you is going to be inconvenienced especially for couples in different time zones but at the end of day you have to fight for what you want.
- Use messaging apps
Send each other messages, photos, and videos throughout the day to stay connected. It doesn’t take a minute to tell someone about an important highlight. Give them a reason to look forward to your next long conversation. Don’t give your partner a space to think about what could possibly go wrong with all the oceans keeping you apart.
- Stay Connected Through Shared Activities
Just because you’re apart doesn’t mean you can’t share experiences and activities together. Here are some ideas on what to do together:
Watch the same TV show or movie: Pick a show or movie to watch together, and sync up your devices so you can both watch it at the same time. or actually make a contest on who finishes fast. This will motivate both of you to watch the movie and have something to talk about.
-Play online games together: Choose a game you both enjoy, and play together online.
Cook a meal together: Pick a recipe, and cook it together over video call.
-Practice yoga or meditation together: Follow a video or guided meditation together, and enjoy the benefits of mindfulness and relaxation.
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Show Affection and Appreciation
Physical touch and affection are essential in any relationship, but in a long distance relationship, it can be challenging to show affection. Here are some ideas:
Send surprise gifts: Send each other small gifts or care packages to show you’re thinking of each other.
-Write love letters: Write each other letters or emails expressing your feelings and gratitude.
-Make video messages: Record video messages for each other, sharing your thoughts, feelings, and experiences.
Celebrate milestones together: Celebrate birthdays, anniversaries, and other special occasions together over video call.
- Trust and Transparency
Trust is essential in any relationship, and even more so in a long distance relationship. To build and maintain trust:
Be transparent and honest: Share your thoughts, feelings, and experiences with each other, and be honest about your actions and intentions.
Set boundaries and expectations: Discuss your boundaries and expectations, and make sure you’re both on the same page.
Avoid jealousy and possessiveness: Trust each other and avoid feelings of jealousy and possessiveness.
-Foster a sense of independence: Maintain your own interests, hobbies, and friendships, and encourage each other to do the same.
Understand that you have life besides the relationship. This will help you go on with life even when your partner is busy on some days
Remember that just people are unique, all relationships are unique and what works for another couple might not work for another. So prioritize each other’s feelings about each and every aspect of a relationship whether long distance or not.
